Two profound things I realised for my life.

1. As I was a huge people pleaser, apparently...

Not every interraction with everybody has to end in perfect chemistry and huge smiles.

Like, I noticed I feel PAIN if cashier is not above the clouds when we finish the conversation.

But actually, I just need to worry and take care of myself. Currently I don't have energy to spare to make cashier's day. 

ONLY if I go to Japan. Imma combat カスハラ hands on.

I love making people happy and smiling. But I shouldn't feel pain if I am not looool

2. People in Denmark CAN be rude.

For the lack of satisfying residency/citizenship situation, I am becoming more and more of an immigrant in Copenhagen. And I realise.... Danes etc are sometimes rude, passive aggressive and malicious to me. Combined with my strong people pleasing course, this is a major turn in my life. Towards a future better medical treatment, better community services, stronger safety net. 

I am so happy I can mention specific areas. I feel like I fit super well on workplaces. I think maybe I can seem manipulative

I have been learning to be piss-rude since last year and GOSH you should have SEEN the FRUITS of my labor.